The principle of "FORGIVENESS"

to excuse a fault/past behavior, pardon, absolve,

FEARS:

* they will do it again
* I am soft
* they don't deserve it
* doormat

What does it look like when I am doing it? (rewards)

* letting go of the past
* less stress
* loss of resentments
* lack of conflicts
* helpful
* forgiveness by others

What does it look like when I am not doing it? (costs)

* conflict
* stress
* not getting along with others

What are the benefits?

* serenity
* gratitude
* Love
* improved relationships

What is the truth?

* forgiveness helps me

What is the illusion?

* I can't forgive