principle of "Spiritual axiom" (whenever we are disturbed something is wrong with us)

FEARS:

* nothing is wrong with me
* I won't like what I find
* I don't want to know what is wrong with me

What does it look like when I am doing it? (rewards)

* self honesty
* courage
* humility
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What does it look like when I am not doing it? (costs)

* victim-hood
* same thing over and over
* self pity
* frustration

What are the benefits?

* serenity
* I can create a better way of looking at things
* others don't push my buttons

What is the truth?

* I am not a victim of the world I see!

What is the illusion?

* they are wrong