principle of "POWER vs FORCE"

allowing vs fighting

FEARS:

* I will loose power
* I won't like what happens
* I like the way things are

What does it look like when I am doing it? (rewards)

* acceptance
* calm
* flowing
* effortless

What does it look like when I am not doing it? (costs)

* conflict
* energy expenditure
* mistakes
* effort

What are the benefits?

* effortlessness
* agreements
* helpful
* power returns

What is the truth?

* Power makes me powerful

What is the illusion?

* I can force things and feel good