Principle of "WILLINGNESS"

choosing, inclined to, deciding for, ready/prepared

FEARS:

* too much work
* I won't like the outcomes
* others will get in my way
* I can't!!

What does it look like when I am doing it? (rewards)

* things go better
* others appreciate me
* things turn out right
* God helps?
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What does it look like when I am not doing it? (costs)

* painful
* lazyness
* self pity
* self hatred
* I think I am fine the way I am

What are the benefits?

* confidence
* effortless
* others respect me
* things get done

What is the truth?

* I should always be willing

What is the illusion?

* everything is good the way It is