Principle of "COMMUNICATION"

expression and exchange of thoughts, ideas,; transmission of messages, interaction

FEARS:

* they will get to know me
* they will know my secrets
* takes too long
* waste of time

What does it look like when I am doing it? (rewards)

* accepting and tolerating others
* useful knowledge
* getting to know others
* less mistakes

What does it look like when I am not doing it? (costs)

* selfishness
* less awareness/knowledge
* mistakes easily made
* others less tolerant of me

What are the benefits?

* security
* knowledge
* helpfulness both ways
* friendship

What is the truth?

* this is an art that is helpful, need more of it

What is the illusion?

* I know all, this is a waste of time