Principle of "ASKED"

to seek an answer, to question/inquire/look for, to inquire, seek information

FEARS:

* I won't like what I find
* this is a stupid question
* I don't know what I am doing

What does it look like when I am doing it? (rewards)

* sense of accomplishment
* I learn new things
* I find unexpected things
* life is smoother, and easier

What does it look like when I am not doing it? (costs)

* repeating mistakes
* not learning
* never advancing

What are the benefits?

* progress
* confidence
* able to help others

What is the truth? (I don't know and I can't do everything)

* asking is rewarding and useful

What is the illusion? (I know what is best)

* I know all I need to know